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Post by okiebug on Mar 27, 2019 23:00:28 GMT
So just an update, if you can call it that. I sent a brief email to him saying we have some unresolved issues to figure out by the 1st (rent and bills due etc)was there a time or place he preferred to meet to discuss...that was on the 22nd. Not a word. No clue what the hell he is doing or going through but i find myself wondering and then get side tracked and refocus back to myself. I feel sick and hurt. I know that is normal to feel. But you build a life with someone and then this. I am at a loss...
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Post by faithopelove on Mar 28, 2019 0:04:30 GMT
So just an update, if you can call it that. I sent a brief email to him saying we have some unresolved issues to figure out by the 1st (rent and bills due etc)was there a time or place he preferred to meet to discuss...that was on the 22nd. Not a word. No clue what the hell he is doing or going through but i find myself wondering and then get side tracked and refocus back to myself. I feel sick and hurt. I know that is normal to feel. But you build a life with someone and then this. I am at a loss... I would be so hurt too- not to mention you have the very real and pressing issue of dealing with real life bills. Even if he can’t speak of your relationship right now, addressing the bills is the responsible thing to do. I’d be hurt and getting mad at this point 😞 Can you call him?
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Post by hola on Mar 28, 2019 0:08:55 GMT
So just an update, if you can call it that. I sent a brief email to him saying we have some unresolved issues to figure out by the 1st (rent and bills due etc)was there a time or place he preferred to meet to discuss...that was on the 22nd. Not a word. No clue what the hell he is doing or going through but i find myself wondering and then get side tracked and refocus back to myself. I feel sick and hurt. I know that is normal to feel. But you build a life with someone and then this. I am at a loss... [ Did you call/text besides the e-mail? So no response....Leaving for that much time to do whatever he wants is not acceptable for a healthy relationship. Sorry you’re going through this
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Post by okiebug on Mar 28, 2019 2:04:19 GMT
I haven't...yet. I was allowing him to do the responsible thing and let me know. Its marked on my calendar in red marker that I'm gonna start calling and texting Fri am. Maybe i am having an avoidant moment but i had already marked calendar once i sent email. So not yet but its about to happen. Faithhopelove and hola, thank YOU both for your responses and support. I cannot tell you how much it means to me right now.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 28, 2019 6:53:16 GMT
Gosh we are talking about a GROWN man here triggered or not I truly hope he shows up soon and faces his responsibilities. You must be besides yourself, I am so very sorry your having to go through all this.
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Post by 8675309 on Mar 28, 2019 10:05:02 GMT
Ugh, sorry he has not stepped up by now to talk about the real things that need to be handled outside intimacy/emotions.
For me personally as much as it hurts Id kick him out of my life, hes still a grown man attachment or not and he has left you hanging in a big way... You have given him plenty of space.
Know its ok to be in your feels, rather pissed, etc.
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