Songs

Wake Up by Arcade Fire is all about how our childhood issues affect our lives later on in life and is very relevant to the people of this board. A great piece of music too

I'm bumping this thread because I hope people post more songs that make them think of attachment styles.

I've heard the songs you all recommended, thank you I love it when people share music with me, I feel I can get to know them more! The last one I want to share because I enjoy this one a lot:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8JJxmVQ9KI

It's a very powerful song. I felt so much like this when we separated (and it's also just a cool, very very mexican song overall). Here's my terrible translation if anyone's curious (there are some very weird concepts going on in the lyrics):


Tengo tres caras posibles / I have three possible faces
Tú me las quitas todas / You take them all from me
Tengo una risa con alas / I have a laugh with wings
Que vuela si estamos a solas / Which flies if we are alone

Tengo una voz y una piel / I have a voice and a skin
Que quieren que tú las descifres / They want you to decipher them
Tengo la vida muy corta / I have very short life
Para entender lo que dicen / To understand what they say

Tus ojos que, cuando los miro / Your eyes that, when I look at them
Brillan igual que los míos / They shine like mine
Pero no logro entender / But I cannot understand
De qué van / Where are they coming from
Pero si un día tú me encuentras / But if one day you come and find me
Y ahora piensas diferente / And now you think different
Te guardo un poquito de fe / I'll keep a little bit of faith
Para abrir los ojos y verte / And open my eyes to see you

Pero si un día tú me encuentras / But if one day you come and find me
Y ahora piensas diferente / And now you think different
Te guardo mi luz de mañana / I'lll give you my tomorrow's light
Mis ojos, mi amor y mi almohada / My eyes, my love and my pillow

Tengo dos besos pendientes / I have two pending kisses
Uno por cada mejilla / One for each cheek
Y un abismo de cristal / And a glass abyss
Por cada herida / For each wound

Tengo el espacio carente / I have a lacking space
Que ocuparía tu abrazo / That your embrace should occupy
Si se nos diera el caso / If we had the opportunity
De vernos lejos de la gente / to see each other far from other people

Tengo la vida muy corta / I have a very short life
Y tú la mirada decente / And you a decent gaze
Y a mí no me importa pensar / And I do not mind thinking
Lo imposible de tenerte / The impossible of having you

Pero si un día tú me encuentras / But if one day you come and find me
Y ahora piensas diferente / And now you think different
Te guardo un poquito de fe / I'll keep a little bit of faith
Para abrir los ojos y verte / And open my eyes to see you
Pero si un día tú me encuentras / But if one day you come and find me
Y ahora piensas diferente / And now you think different
Te guardo mi luz de mañana / I'lll give you my tomorrow's light
Mis ojos, mi amor y mi almohada / My eyes, my love and my pillow

how i feel about my partner is

Bridge Over Troubled Water
Simon and Garfunkel


youtu.be/H_a46WJ1viA

Esto me rompe el corazon. I feel it too.

That's beautiful. Sounds like a secure song to me!

I like that one: How long will I love you

youtu.be/B2KKcjSOBmk

I think it’s a secure love song

“How long will I want you?
As long as you want me too”