i'm making a collection of some articles on dismissive attachment, and here are some that i have found.
it helps me to stay active reading about my attachment style because it reminds me of what my unconscious drives are, and what internal obstacles i need to be aware of as i try to nurture the intimacy and connection i desire with those close to me.
maintaining my awareness of this stuff also helps me remember to be more gentle with myself and ask for the help i need from supportive people, and it is helping me catch myself when i default to deactivation and going it alone.
i am posting these for others who might want to understand and begin to heal their dismissive attachment, and for those who are trying to understand and support a dismissive person in their lives.