Post by 8675309 on Oct 20, 2018 0:29:35 GMT
From what I've learnt about DAs, they leave or turn their back as soon as the relationship looks like it is serious, because commitment scares them away. Also with the sex - he won't give you that because that means more commitment. (I'm currently grappling with something similar)
The other bit is that my DA would never take my advice to look up attachment or work on himself. That is part of being a DA!!!! So don't hold your breath.
Thanks for your post, I'm taking inspiration from you to shore up my own confidence when I communicate. I'm good with doing my own thing but I slide a lot.
He wants the sex, I just dont give it on some of the come backs. You cant vanish for weeks on me and Im going to run to your bed the minute your 'back'. Hes wanted it and I told him I cant because of my feelings, I cant be a booty call with someone I have feelings for. He just runs after. I want to badly but I just cant anymore, he knows I want it too... LOL.
Having that talk about weekly hangout/sex made him run though!
Im sending him love and light and have faith he will look it up. The universe will bring in the tower for him and he will do it. How far he takes it, thats another story... haha.
He doesnt want to bother then we wont talk ever again and Im just another gal he'll toss in his fail bucket. Is what it is. I just keep doing me and in time my feelings will go away and someone new will come.
Thank you for the reply from your DA perspective.
