Post by alexandra on Nov 18, 2018 19:46:48 GMT
tnr9, if you were close to a child who was prone to an on and off illness and needed extra attention sometimes, would that cause you to blame the child and not accept them? And let's say the child grew up to be a little weird as a teenager, maybe a quiet and emo artist who made only dark purple paintings... and you only like brightly colored art. Does that change how much you care about the kid?
You're still talking about conditional love through a lens of self-blame. I also agree with your therapist.
Someone being a psychiatrist doesn't make them aware of their own situation, especially if the specialty of practice is something unrelated. Or if they are aware, they may not desire to do the work to change. It doesn't automatically make them right in how they've handled the situation.
I hope you feel better soon! I don't tend to get reactions from flu shots most years, luckily, but it is unpleasant when it happens. Rest and stay hydrated today!
You're still talking about conditional love through a lens of self-blame. I also agree with your therapist.
Someone being a psychiatrist doesn't make them aware of their own situation, especially if the specialty of practice is something unrelated. Or if they are aware, they may not desire to do the work to change. It doesn't automatically make them right in how they've handled the situation.
I hope you feel better soon! I don't tend to get reactions from flu shots most years, luckily, but it is unpleasant when it happens. Rest and stay hydrated today!
