Be aware of some on this forum...

They were both bullied but Rockgirl more

Some things said by Rockgirl clearly annoyed multiple people, and they expressed that. We should be allowed to do that here.

Yes, from your perspective. From mine, there was an argument. I asked what you propose ought to happen, you didn't reply to that.

Jeb was contacted and made his determination on the thread. He basically said leave or stay- if uncomfortable, stay in the support threads. His determination made sense to me- and I certainly didn’t appreciate many of the opinions on the thread...but this is a diverse group so we’re going to have diverse views.

Well this isn't the sort of place I want to hang around anymore, some of you can't see the obvious and you're minimising bullying, which is abuse, which is possibly why you're still thinking it's all alright. I read Jeb's post and he said he didn't have time the read everything. Even the OP of the thread was abusive towards them and didn't listen to them, I saw they were on her side. Not my sort of place here, they were decent people and I want to be around decent people.

I think maybe afety this last forum...being this shit will happen again. And now das think it's ok to start a thread in the ap forum about how we are all little children that need to be pussy footed around. I'm off too

My 2 cents: I have been here only a week but I appreciate the range of perspectives and I'm staying. 
This forum is a treasure trove of info as I make sense of the FA/DA guy I'm seeing and start to contemplate how my anxiety has stirred the pot. It is the most informative source on attachment styles I have found in my vigorous Googling. People here will disagree, not always tactfully. I think self-editing is a worse outcome in moving the ball of understanding along.
In my own first post here, I read responses that made me bristle initially. But a Buddhist-type once told me, when you feel defensive, get soft in the stomach. Let it pass and see if there is a kernel to learn from. In my job, I take rugged feedback and have learned that once I let the urge for self-defense pass, I can grow from much of it. Maybe not instantly, but once it marinates. The work feedback that irks me most usually is the most instructive, even if I don't agree with all so I bring that experience here.
I'm not trying to preen as Mother Teresa--just stating my MO for getting the most out of the data provided here--free!
The anonymity of a forum allows valuable candor--what I posted I would not share with some friends!--but it also removes the checks and balances of an in-real-life encounter, thus the street-brawling.