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Post by mrob on Oct 18, 2019 3:25:40 GMT
Sex three times in the last year of our marriage. I felt like a sleaze asking, or sidling up, or inferring so I stopped. The closeness disappeared. It was just like friends, and I’m glad we’re still good friends today. No place has been so lonely than at each end of the lounge room on devices, or at either side of a king size bed. She’s secure, and has demonstrated it over and again.
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Post by happyidiot on Oct 18, 2019 7:25:55 GMT
Sex three times in the last year of our marriage. I felt like a sleaze asking, or sidling up, or inferring so I stopped. The closeness disappeared. It was just like friends, and I’m glad we’re still good friends today. No place has been so lonely than at each end of the lounge room on devices, or at either side of a king size bed. She’s secure, and has demonstrated it over and again. Did she know how you felt? Or could she have thought you didn't want it either? I know what you mean about the loneliness. I'm sorry you went through that. I have been on both sides and I never want to go through that again, whether it is me deactivating or my partner not wanting sex for whatever reason, it's a massive fear for me and both felt awful. I think/hope I have learned enough to keep myself from deactivating sexually again, at least that seems more in my control. |
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