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Post by simply on Aug 23, 2019 1:04:12 GMT
Hi,
No matter who I meet, as an AP, I think that everyone is better and above me. Like I'm the worst of them all.
Even with men, if I learned earlier on that they go around picking up girls from cafes to have sex with and that's their preoccupation, I still feel smaller than them. Whereas a friend of mine would think 'that's disgusting.'
And actually I get a lot of compliments that I'm a kind and good person but I don't see that as a quality. But men who use women I see are better than me?
How can I look at this in a more healthy way?
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Post by tnr9 on Aug 23, 2019 1:37:30 GMT
Hi, No matter who I meet, as an AP, I think that everyone is better and above me. Like I'm the worst of them all. Even with men, if I learned earlier on that they go around picking up girls from cafes to have sex with and that's their preoccupation, I still feel smaller than them. Whereas a friend of mine would think 'that's disgusting.' And actually I get a lot of compliments that I'm a kind and good person but I don't see that as a quality. But men who use women I see are better than me? How can I look at this in a more healthy way? The issue with comparisons is that we tend to compare our insides to another person’s outsides. I find comparing is my first thought...but then I think...but if I was my own best friend, what would I tell myself? How can I be my own advocate?
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Post by Deleted on Aug 24, 2019 12:30:35 GMT
I would advise you to explore this through therapy.
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