Post by nickster on Feb 25, 2020 22:54:03 GMT
My heart says yes to give it another ago but I’m also concerned FA might never change. Has a FA ever changed? Or had a healthy relationship?
He dumped me. this has happened before but this time we’ve been apart for a month and he is begging to get back together, he’s saying al the right things, he admits pushing me away and that he’s a FA but doesn’t know why or how to stop. He’s booked to start therapy. He wanted to go together but refused and said he needs to go alone. Obviously if we gave it another ago I would be happy to go to therapy too, but I wanted to see if he was committed to going on his own.
I’m concerned this is just another cycle, and anxious this will just keep going on. From the test it says I’m overall secure with some preoccupied anxious.
He dumped me. this has happened before but this time we’ve been apart for a month and he is begging to get back together, he’s saying al the right things, he admits pushing me away and that he’s a FA but doesn’t know why or how to stop. He’s booked to start therapy. He wanted to go together but refused and said he needs to go alone. Obviously if we gave it another ago I would be happy to go to therapy too, but I wanted to see if he was committed to going on his own.
I’m concerned this is just another cycle, and anxious this will just keep going on. From the test it says I’m overall secure with some preoccupied anxious.
