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Post by kittygirl on Jun 29, 2020 14:06:05 GMT
Quick update on good morning guy -- the texting has all but fizzled out. I'm pretty sure he's AP and that he saw my slowing things down to not be a breakneck speed as my not being very interested. Which wasn't true at first, I just wanted to get to know each other more organically. I feel like there's already been a whirlwind of drama over only a couple dates (though there hasn't actually been any drama at all, but he tried to fast-forward things so that's how I ended up feeling), and that it's simply not going to go anywhere at this point. I stick by my initial advice about it on this thread because it'll shake out pretty quickly what the guy's boundaries actually are in how he responds and if actions and words align! Don't assume AP, just be curious and communicate boundaries and let the person show you what they will. Thank you for updating us! It's very helpful for me to see how these things unfold as it gives me a good perspective. Also I think you're right that it's best to be very up front and let the other person decide what they want to do-sounds like this guy's texting habits weren't going to be sustainable (a huge fear of mine!-getting stuck in a routine that's not sustainable) so being up front really helps with that. And this will help people in the future going through these old posts |
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