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Post by mixedsyles on Jun 27, 2020 5:41:43 GMT
He reach out after some months no contact. He asked if I was seeing someone and I said yes. The conversation went from being friendly to him becoming very passive aggressive and when I asked him why he was acting like that he just shut down. He won’t answer and I feel so upset.
I know that the best thing to do is to let him be and forget that he exists but this time I really fell like acting on my anxiety instead of being rational. I don’t know if I broke his heart or if it is just his ego who is hurting. I think I feel a little bit guilt if I hurted his feelings but I couldn’t know he had any. At the same time I’m angry at him for nothing talking, for letting me guessing and for not showing any sign of regret for making me sad. There are a lot of things that’s uncomfortable for me too but I do it anyway because that is the right thing to do.
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Post by tnr9 on Jun 27, 2020 16:01:44 GMT
He reach out after some months no contact. He asked if I was seeing someone and I said yes. The conversation went from being friendly to him becoming very passive aggressive and when I asked him why he was acting like that he just shut down. He won’t answer and I feel so upset. I know that the best thing to do is to let him be and forget that he exists but this time I really fell like acting on my anxiety instead of being rational. I don’t know if I broke his heart or if it is just his ego who is hurting. I think I feel a little bit guilt if I hurted his feelings but I couldn’t know he had any. At the same time I’m angry at him for nothing talking, for letting me guessing and for not showing any sign of regret for making me sad. There are a lot of things that’s uncomfortable for me too but I do it anyway because that is the right thing to do. Ohhhhhhhh...I so understand...I am the exact same way. Remind yourself that you don’t know what his purpose is in reaching out and you are not responsible for his reactions anymore. If his heart is broken, that is his responsibility to address. Also, you are right to be angry at him to a degree that how he behaved pushed your bottoms and he did not handle things maturely...but again, that is on him. It seems you dodged a very unhealthy individual. |
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Post by mixedsyles on Jun 28, 2020 4:53:42 GMT
He reach out after some months no contact. He asked if I was seeing someone and I said yes. The conversation went from being friendly to him becoming very passive aggressive and when I asked him why he was acting like that he just shut down. He won’t answer and I feel so upset. I know that the best thing to do is to let him be and forget that he exists but this time I really fell like acting on my anxiety instead of being rational. I don’t know if I broke his heart or if it is just his ego who is hurting. I think I feel a little bit guilt if I hurted his feelings but I couldn’t know he had any. At the same time I’m angry at him for nothing talking, for letting me guessing and for not showing any sign of regret for making me sad. There are a lot of things that’s uncomfortable for me too but I do it anyway because that is the right thing to do. Ohhhhhhhh...I so understand...I am the exact same way. Remind yourself that you don’t know what his purpose is in reaching out and you are not responsible for his reactions anymore. If his heart is broken, that is his responsibility to address. Also, you are right to be angry at him to a degree that how he behaved pushed your bottoms and he did not handle things maturely...but again, that is on him. It seems you dodged a very unhealthy individual. I was really upset under some days but yesterday after spending the day at the beach with good friends, delicious food and dans the anxiety suddenly disappeared. I feel like I’m myself again. |
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