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AP & Disorganized Trust Issues Oct 10, 2024 20:20:25 GMT

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Post by iz42 on Oct 10, 2024 20:20:25 GMT

Oct 6, 2024 12:55:03 GMT tnr9 said:

Oct 3, 2024 13:55:32 GMT lovebunny said:

A therapist…even one he can do virtual sessions with, can really help. Books are great, but do not allow for follow up conversations and alternate suggestions. Plus, this is truly more than you should be managing just the 2 of you…especially if you still have your own stuff to work through.

I agree with this. It sounds like he has pretty profound trauma to work through and I think it is fair for you to be concerned about how he is going to handle it going forward (not necessarily that he will become abusive, but if he is unable to communicate directly that will make the relationship very difficult).