Getting the ball rolling

It seems that knowing whether one is FA or DA, or even AP, is irrelevant in the scheme of things.

We're either secure or insecure. The behaviors that you describe and that I can most certainly relate to cause a lot of red herring type of focus on them, instead of the fact that we are insecure by nature (due to our childhoods).

I'm realizing that the labels don't matter in the long run, as it's the insecurity that is driving the show for all of us who are insecure.

It can be parsed out into all these Attachment/Myers-Briggs/(fill in the blank) labels, but in the end we're all insecure and trying to have a secure relationship, or at least come close to that.