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Post by Mary too on Jan 27, 2018 5:18:35 GMT
Glad to see that both mary and tgat have returned. I’ve never posted before but reached out to mary privately and her perspective was unbelievably helpful to me. I’m AP and my boyfriend is DA/FA — still haven’t decided which is more prominent. Guess I’m still more of a lurker, but please know that everything you all share resonates with me and is extremely helpful as I continue to navigate this relationship that is close to four years in the making. As with everything in life.....our differences make the world go round. 😉
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Post by Deleted on Jan 27, 2018 5:28:23 GMT
Glad to see that both mary and tgat have returned. I’ve never posted before but reached out to mary privately and her perspective was unbelievably helpful to me. I’m AP and my boyfriend is DA/FA — still haven’t decided which is more prominent. Guess I’m still more of a lurker, but please know that everything you all share resonates with me and is extremely helpful as I continue to navigate this relationship that is close to four years in the making. As with everything in life.....our differences make the world go round. 😉 Mary too, thank you, this means a lot to me. I lurked here when i wasn’t feeling good about posting and it still helped me. I have advocated a few times in my comments here for the lurkers who need help to heal themselves or their relationships. I am happy to continue to share myself on these boards, i don’t want to do it all in private message because the lurkers cannot find hope or insight that way. Hopefully we can create some good boundaries that respect the needs of DA posters here, I think that a shift is occurring and I am so thankful. I know i got a little scrappy but i did the best i could and i am thankful that i can be here and not be isolated and alone with this stuff. Thanks again.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 27, 2018 15:44:24 GMT
Mary too! Thank you so much for the post. I hope things are going well for you.
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Jan 28, 2018 11:56:36 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2018 11:56:36 GMT
So glad to have both of you back! Your participation enriches the conversations which I feel helps everyone understand each other and themselves more.
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Jan 28, 2018 13:13:22 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2018 13:13:22 GMT
So glad to have both of you back! Your participation enriches the conversations which I feel helps everyone understand each other and themselves more. Thank you anxious, very glad to be here and i feel the same way about everyone participating 🌺
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Post by tnr9 on Mar 11, 2018 1:38:02 GMT
Mary...somehow I missed this news in my absence from the boards....so very sorry to read this....glad that others have been surrounding you with love. I second the Thank You for your sage advice. Please let me know if I can help in any way. Cyber hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 11, 2018 6:13:06 GMT
Mary...somehow I missed this news in my absence from the boards....so very sorry to read this....glad that others have been surrounding you with love. I second the Thank You for your sage advice. Please let me know if I can help in any way. Cyber hugs. Thank you tnr9. It was a rough 2 months, but we have since reconciled with more understanding for ourselves and each other
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