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Post by bedlam71 on May 16, 2018 20:12:38 GMT
Was reading an article and it said "A relationship with a love avoidant is in reality, not a real relationship at all— but a counterfeit emotional entangle." What do you all think?
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Post by DearLover on May 16, 2018 23:07:12 GMT
True.
It is a fake relationship based on the avoidant's projection, what they want the partner to be for them instead of who the partner really is.
And by the way, there is a discussion somewhere on how the APs are also avoidant in their own way... and that is why they attract the DAs and FAs. We are all on the same boat!
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Post by leavethelighton on May 17, 2018 0:39:18 GMT
Not necessarily. Don't they say an avoidant with a more secure person can become a stable match? I don't think that's a fake relationship. It will have its challenges like all relationships but it can also have its strengths.
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Post by tnr9 on May 17, 2018 0:43:42 GMT
I think that is probably true for love addicts as well.
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