Post by rae on Jul 21, 2019 3:07:34 GMT
I have been following this forum for a few months now (ever since a DA ended our relationship). I have learned so much and have been exploring my own attachment style.
I was wondering if anyone out there only exhibits AP behaviour when having been broken up with or during a fight when your partner is avoiding you.
When in a relationship, I am secure (even a little avoidant at times). However as soon as I feel abandoned/rejected (either by being broken up with or being ignored/avoided when a fight arises), I exhibit ALOT of AP behaviour I.e. calling/texting when I should be giving space, ruminating endlessly and idealizing the relationship and refusing to move on. It has been 5 months of no contact and I’m still thinking about him incessantly and cannot imagine myself with anyone else.
Does anyone else experience AP behaviour only when rejected but act very secure during the relationship?
I was wondering if anyone out there only exhibits AP behaviour when having been broken up with or during a fight when your partner is avoiding you.
When in a relationship, I am secure (even a little avoidant at times). However as soon as I feel abandoned/rejected (either by being broken up with or being ignored/avoided when a fight arises), I exhibit ALOT of AP behaviour I.e. calling/texting when I should be giving space, ruminating endlessly and idealizing the relationship and refusing to move on. It has been 5 months of no contact and I’m still thinking about him incessantly and cannot imagine myself with anyone else.
Does anyone else experience AP behaviour only when rejected but act very secure during the relationship?
