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Post by empathy on Mar 21, 2017 15:50:37 GMT
my 1st love was with a dismissive avoidance partner the funny thing about my relationship was that her whole family seems to be dismissive avoidance they don't show feelings much but very religious like some kind of weird cult which i am fine due to me being a free thinker.
i really loved her to the point that i put her on a pedestal but blinded by my 1st loved i finally know she was just enjoying the attention that i was giving her.
then to my shocking discovery she just wanted to be friends nothing more and leave me hanging, of course i am pissed off so badly i blocked her everywhere except her phone number.
still hoping she will call but to my knowledge DA will value their independent over relationship.
correct me if i am wrong
i felt like i just wasted my time luckily it wasn't long
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Post by anonymous10 on Jun 19, 2017 13:26:42 GMT
Hi Empathy,
I hope you can take some comfort in reading these posts here, on this forum. It is not uncommon for someone who is DA to completely discard you with seemingly no feelings at all. Please look after yourself, and don't let this person come and go as they please. It will only erode your self-esteem and keep you hooked. I don't know who you are, but I know one thing - You, do not, by any means, deserve this. Read more on this site, learn about the reasons why DA's do the things they do, and let it help you detach from what has happened to you.
All the best, xx
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Post by joanneg on Jun 20, 2017 1:24:45 GMT
This forum has really helped me...
It is hard that it is a first love as well as an avoidant... time is the best healer xxx
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