Women can’t experience being loved, until they experience of being safe.
Women adapt to how (physical) weak they are all the time
When was the last time you as a woman experienced a thread for your physical safety ? - you experienced or perceived a threat to your physical safety e.g. you took your keys out before you reached a building - within the last 24 hours, the last week, the last month ect. ?
Women perception of a threat is so much more sensitive because of being the smaller and weaker gender.
For women it’s a primal fear, it’s ancient
Womens perception of a threat, is so much more sensitive than a man’s. Am I safe, am I safe, am I safe…
After she can say yes to being safe, she can experience of being loved
Men will not get the best (love, joy, happiness, generosity, warmth, ect.) from a woman, until she experience being safe
This makes women a part of who they are
If you ask a man the same questions, there’s a change that he will hardly remember the last time he felt unsafe, maybe he has to go all the way back to childhood
Men are often not aware how much stronger they are than a woman.
Testosterone makes a man’s connective tissue and muscles stronger than womens. Even if he is a small guy compared to a woman, he will be stronger because of testosterone
Studies show that women are 5-7 times better at reading situations, moods and emotions.
Fortunately, it's something we can all get better at if we practice it. social skills and being able to "read" people are extremely important - also in a company where we have to create results together.
We must be able to read and understand our colleagues, employees, customers, partners, children, family members ect.
Many people are so much in their heads that they find it difficult to read their surroundings, empathize or have situational awareness.