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Post by faithopelove on Nov 17, 2018 17:01:37 GMT
there was a lot of paranoia from that poster, the whole time i've seen her active. it looks like she carried her trauma forwardi to every interaction with DA here. if there was a DA on the thread, she had a claim to make about DA that was more on target with narcissism and pathology. she conflated the two pretty continuously. that gets old for sure. i definitely felt targeted by her passive aggressive smears on DA, and it was constant. aggression that DA's face here is not as often pointed out, but it's there. The advantage we have is that it doesn't go past a surface scratch. but enough piled on thread after thread is abrasive. there are differing views on the whole issue. the whole point is, work on yourself, take what is helpful and build boundaries around the rest, and i think Jeb is right on point with the insights that he has. this forum has created a lot of growth for a lot of people who are willing to keep up the dialog. so onward. I agree. She was working from a perception she had formed and was unwilling to be challenged to think differently. I think the trigger for her was that some DAs and APs get along on this forum and learn from each other and she saw this as "manipulation". She doesn't want her perceptions to be challenged. Hey, you’re not “God” anymore!! Lol Now I know the thread was useful! 🌼
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2018 17:18:37 GMT
I agree. She was working from a perception she had formed and was unwilling to be challenged to think differently. I think the trigger for her was that some DAs and APs get along on this forum and learn from each other and she saw this as "manipulation". She doesn't want her perceptions to be challenged. Hey, you’re not “God” anymore!! Lol Now I know the thread was useful! 🌼 I saw that, YAY! Jeb fixed the labels. Anyway, it should have been Goddess, LOL!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2018 17:30:51 GMT
I agree. She was working from a perception she had formed and was unwilling to be challenged to think differently. I think the trigger for her was that some DAs and APs get along on this forum and learn from each other and she saw this as "manipulation". She doesn't want her perceptions to be challenged. Hey, you’re not “God” anymore!! Lol Now I know the thread was useful! 🌼 dang faithopelove, you hit it out of the park with that one! 😁
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2018 22:32:51 GMT
This is all so wrong. Stop it now ladies. Don't see humanise another person to inflate your own ego's anymore
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2018 22:36:39 GMT
This is serious shit we are dealing with. Not at some coffee morning gossip group
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Post by faithopelove on Nov 17, 2018 22:49:56 GMT
This is all so wrong. Stop it now ladies. Don't see humanise another person to inflate your own ego's anymore I have no idea what you’re talking about helsbells or why you’re so annoyed. I found it strange to say the least that people will be labeled as God and that’s why I was glad to see the label change. What problem could you possibly have with that? I shouldn’t have to walk on egg shells on this forum.
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Post by faithopelove on Nov 17, 2018 22:57:19 GMT
This is serious shit we are dealing with. Not at some coffee morning gossip group Are we now going to argue about the appropriate labels for this forum? 😏 Enough is enough. It’s my opinion that they shouldn’t be “God,” so be it. Nothing to do with ego or dehumanizing. Not everything is about you or someone else on this forum. It’s my point of view about a “label.” Serious projection going on.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 17, 2018 23:08:34 GMT
Not talking about Jebs rating stars or god. Talking about a thread by a DA starting up in an AP thread so close to two other human beings feeling so bullied they had to leave.. Then a da set up this thread.. I'm back home with my mother now ...yes scoff at my weakness for that but these trauma wounds are as real to me as they are to other attachments but I would never set up a tread to deliberately harm another.
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Post by leavethelighton on Nov 18, 2018 0:28:35 GMT
Hey, you’re not “God” anymore!! Lol Now I know the thread was useful! 🌼 I saw that, YAY! Jeb fixed the labels. Anyway, it should have been Goddess, LOL! Funny, I was actually thinking about that last night. "I wish the system didn't put God..but if it was Goddess, I'd be way less annoyed!" Funny...
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Post by leavethelighton on Nov 18, 2018 0:33:42 GMT
I think Helsbels has a valid point here (move on... or at least take the talking behind someone's back to a private discussion). I also think Rockgirl had a bit of a point. The truth is almost always halfway between two peoples' perspectives...
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