Post by Deleted on Dec 17, 2018 9:45:39 GMT
I was watching tv (Arrow) and there are some great lines that capture quite aptly alot of my AP thoughts, in a calmer manner. when i was with my ex, there were various versions of these two lines in multiple situations, in which i was left out of decisions, conversations, and situations, and I usually found out post-hoc.
this of course just triggered me more and made me feel really used and unloved and manipulated.
1. if you loved me, telling me things would be a relief, not a burden.
2. marriage is about inclusion, not about leaving out your partner when things get complicated. and once again, you've left me out of the decisions.
this of course just triggered me more and made me feel really used and unloved and manipulated.
1. if you loved me, telling me things would be a relief, not a burden.
2. marriage is about inclusion, not about leaving out your partner when things get complicated. and once again, you've left me out of the decisions.