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Post by faithopelove on Jan 30, 2019 22:20:59 GMT
youtu.be/zjlromHj7lUSince we’ve talked a lot on the boards about DA vs FA, I think this would be good to share. It’s a great channel- I just discovered!
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Post by epicgum on Jan 31, 2019 18:14:12 GMT
Thanks for finding this faithopeloveI listened to this link last night while going to bed. Unfortunately I fell asleep so I need to listen to it again, but what I remember was really good (the bit about enmeshment trauma resonates for me), I'll definitely give the other videos on her channel a listen as well. |
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DA vs FA
Jan 31, 2019 21:15:46 GMT
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Post by faithopelove on Jan 31, 2019 21:15:46 GMT
Thanks for finding this faithopeloveI listened to this link last night while going to bed. Unfortunately I fell asleep so I need to listen to it again, but what I remember was really good (the bit about enmeshment trauma resonates for me), I'll definitely give the other videos on her channel a listen as well. - Glad it resonated with you  I’m really finding this new channel to be an incredible resource. She speaks of the attachments without being judgmental too, which is a plus!! |
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Post by boomerang on Feb 1, 2019 1:19:37 GMT
I also really found her videos insightful and clear. I watched a couple of them. The DA one, I felt, put a couple of pieces together for me that I kind of "knew" but hadn't quite organized into a clear understanding. The one on how do you tell someone's attachment style in early dating was interesting--I am in this somewhat budding thing with a guy who is super consistent in communication, but super relaxed about how often we meet--and she tagged that as DA approach thing (not a triggered thing) and explained the perspective from that side, which was so interesting. Thank you, FHL!
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Post by unluckyinlove on Feb 1, 2019 1:21:21 GMT
Yeah I’ve listened to a few different ones and I find Thais Gibson to be the best at explaining things without judgement. I’ve listened to Briana Macwilliam and she’s good too but her videos run a lot longer, she gets a little more intellectual with responses and sometimes I sense a slight judgement for the APs.
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I’m really finding this new channel to be an incredible resource. She speaks of the attachments without being judgmental too, which is a plus!! 