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Post by stayhappy on Feb 3, 2019 11:21:04 GMT
He have been in a work trip for some weeks and as usuall he wanted to meet. The difference is that this time he asked if I could give him something extra. I thought like “Hum he want to spicy our sex, which is already great actually 😏”. I was kind of surprised when he asked if I wanted to cook dinner for us and maybe listen to music and dance ☺️. It’s was kind of chocking because I have invited him to eat dinner before but he always declined.
The night was really good. We couldn’t stop talking and although we talked about some intimate things in our life this time I felt he was more relaxed. He said he trusts on me now much more than before and I have seen some changes on his behavior. I don’t know if that is happening because I stoped reacting and accepted that he is as he is and he knows that my life is not on hold for him. Maybe he feel less pressure knowing that he is not stoping my life from something ”greater”.
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Post by happyidiot on Feb 4, 2019 5:03:18 GMT
Good to hear. It is touching to hear of secure people like you who are willing to go the extra mile to work with your insecure partners and love us even though we might not love ourselves.
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Post by faithopelove on Feb 4, 2019 5:36:00 GMT
Good to hear. It is touching to hear of secure people like you who are willing to go the extra mile to work with your insecure partners and love us even though we might not love ourselves. I’m trying....convincing an insecure you love them and they are lovable has been my greatest challenge in my relationship with my DA. He refuses to believe, to trust, to hope. It makes me think how sad his past must have been...
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Post by stayhappy on Feb 4, 2019 16:08:49 GMT
Good to hear. It is touching to hear of secure people like you who are willing to go the extra mile to work with your insecure partners and love us even though we might not love ourselves. In some way it got easier. I’m learning from him and he is learning from me. We are not in a serious relationship and I don’t think we are going to engage in one but this time we have spent together have been a good opportunity for me too see things from an other perspective and I feel more thankful for the good environment I had as a child.
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