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Post by anne12 on Feb 9, 2019 13:32:57 GMT
What you wear might be more important than you think. No matter if you are a woman or a man.
As a woman put on a dress that makes you feel feminine and beautifull. Put makeup on and do your hair and maybe your nails. Go to work like this or if not work to the mall ect. Feel how it changes your mood, your energy, your posture
If you are a man you can put on some fancy elegant shoes, put on a good aftershave, maybe a blazer ect. Go to work or out in town like that.
If you are a woman you can also put on your favorite feminine, delicate underwear and bra on.
Just do it even if it is after work and enjoy and see what happens inside you and around you!
This exercise can make you Think higher of yourself. When we feel good about ouerselfs, we will be happier and and we seem more attractive to other people. It can also make you socialize more - maybe also with the opposite sex.
An experience from a woman: I went to work in my beautifull favorite dress, with my hair done and with makeup on. And wow.... it was magic. People were smiling at me, the men at work hold the door for me and said "God morning" more often than they normaly do.
The magic is about that when we chance our own feeling inside, when we allow ourself to shine and to feel good, then our surroundings will mirror this back to us. Everything starts with you!
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Post by anne12 on Feb 9, 2019 13:53:48 GMT
Write a love letter to yourself like if you were your own girlfriend or boyfriend. It has to be handwritten. Imagine that you were the lucky one who had your eyes on you and had fallen in love with you. Write down what you would had fallen for, what you feel being together with you, (that you make you laugh, that you have a big heart, that you are wonderful making love to ect.) You are allowed to think how you would like to be seen as by a future partner. What would you just love that the person was able to see in you ? Maybe some of the things that you are not that fond/proud of in yourself and that you have a problem to love ?
It can be very heeling to write this down. To write it and also to receive it. You can post it for real and send it by mail to yourself.
When you will receive the letter make yourself a nice cup of tea or coffee, open the letter and read it slowly. Loud. Feel what happens in your body. All feelings are healing. Also mourning/sorrow. Try if you can take in the meaning of the letter.
This is a fantastic training to be able to receive love. This is so important in love life. Sometimes we just have to receive and not do so much in love life. Say thank you! And know that you deserve to be loved.
❤️
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Post by anne12 on Feb 10, 2019 6:58:10 GMT
Now write a letter to your future boyfriend/girlfriend:
Dear future boyfriend/girlfriend! If you were in my life, then I would love that we started the Day with .......
Afterwards I have arranged that we are going to .......
Just the thought of it makes me ........(happy, warm inside, feeling butterflies ect)
I am looking forward to ..... ( meeting you, hold your hand, wake up with you by my side every morning, travel around the world together with you ect)
With love
Your future boyfriend/girlfriend
Xxxxx (your name)
You can write more than one letter if you want to. This exercise will show you how prepared you are to meet a new partner. Maybe you will feel sorrow, if that's the case you have to look at that first and then do the exercise. IT also helps you to attract a new partner into your life. IT is like you are reaching out for him/her.
This exercise gives you permission to feel what you are logning for to do with a partner and helps you to feel how it would be like to be with your future partner.
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Post by goldilocks on Feb 10, 2019 21:12:21 GMT
I like this! Being your own valentine puts you in the habit of loving and being loved.
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