DAs and the Stan Tatkin Couple Bubble?

I will try to heed your advice. She knows I'm reading that book and she was the one that asked questions about it. But as she seems put-off by the couple bubble idea, I won't try to impose this on her. I'll try to keep our discussions about the book low-pressure (i.e. not expecting her to change or take the book as gospel).

We both know that the AP and DA pairing is the main challenge in our relationship and we both want to find solutions to that because we want a future together. She often talks about retiring together (we're in our early 40s) so she has no trouble with commitment. I'm fairly hopeful that we can make it work but at this point I'm the only one actively seeking solutions. She is willing to make adjustments though and has done so in the past already. She's putting a bit more effort to stay in contact when we're not together (which is most of the time since we're a LAT couple).