Post by ocarina on Mar 31, 2019 19:59:05 GMT
"If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love" Thich Nacht Hanh
Obvious in the case of the avoidant who literally does just that - less obvious maybe for the anxious person who may be less than present as a result of behaviour designed to control a partner in order to get their own needs met. There's a lot of talk about true love - I like Tich Nacht Hanh's definition of love as simply being there - for oneself and for other people.
Obvious in the case of the avoidant who literally does just that - less obvious maybe for the anxious person who may be less than present as a result of behaviour designed to control a partner in order to get their own needs met. There's a lot of talk about true love - I like Tich Nacht Hanh's definition of love as simply being there - for oneself and for other people.
