Post by anonymous10 on Jun 21, 2017 8:46:51 GMT
I have reached the point with my FA ex where I said we have to set each other free and if we are meant to be, we will be. I never allowed us to stay together long for all respect/boundaries to be eroded. He has come a long long way in terms of his personal growth (and a lot of that has to do with me), but the pain of letting someone go, who I know is in internal turmoil and misery and so, utterly alone, kills me.
I love him. And I am quite sure he loves me. I know 100% that we would not be happy together now. I do not want to 'fix' him, I want him to do it for himself and only for him. He would resent me otherwise.
It hurts so have hope, and to also say goodbye. I can't help but feel like I went through all this suffering to teach him an incredible life lesson, that he will take into a relationship with someone new, and they will get the better version of him.
Any words of comfort?
I love him. And I am quite sure he loves me. I know 100% that we would not be happy together now. I do not want to 'fix' him, I want him to do it for himself and only for him. He would resent me otherwise.
It hurts so have hope, and to also say goodbye. I can't help but feel like I went through all this suffering to teach him an incredible life lesson, that he will take into a relationship with someone new, and they will get the better version of him.
Any words of comfort?
