Post by dash on Jul 13, 2019 23:51:24 GMT
Is it possible for someone to be FA but appear completely normal with a few exceptions, and then turn DA and seem like a completely different person who is cold and never cared for you?
3 yr rlx. Never lived together. She was very kind. Called/texted me several times a day. Visited daily for 2 years. Red flags:no sex unless with clothes on, never told family about me, workaholic, over pleaser, fearful of what others thought, enmeshed with parents and sister, religious but hated it, only let me in certain parts of her house for years, never discussed concrete plans for future just fantasy/dreamy plans.
Every winter she became different-depressed. She moved 1 hr from me, saw me maybe 2-3x per month while she worked and went out with colleagues and family instead of me, went to dr and got on serious antidepressants, quiet, felt like she wasn't sharing with me, absolutely no touching or intimacy, started talking like she had fantasy about meeting someone else, texted infrequently and then became irate when I brought up change in behaviors and asked what she wanted. Melt down, tears, anger. Said she did not want to be with me bc I asked if we could have dinner every night once married. Broke up with me suddenly and never contacted me again.
Makes no sense. Like 2 different people but she was lovely for 3 years AS LONG AS I DIDN'T QUESTION OR PUSH HER STRANGE RULES.
3 yr rlx. Never lived together. She was very kind. Called/texted me several times a day. Visited daily for 2 years. Red flags:no sex unless with clothes on, never told family about me, workaholic, over pleaser, fearful of what others thought, enmeshed with parents and sister, religious but hated it, only let me in certain parts of her house for years, never discussed concrete plans for future just fantasy/dreamy plans.
Every winter she became different-depressed. She moved 1 hr from me, saw me maybe 2-3x per month while she worked and went out with colleagues and family instead of me, went to dr and got on serious antidepressants, quiet, felt like she wasn't sharing with me, absolutely no touching or intimacy, started talking like she had fantasy about meeting someone else, texted infrequently and then became irate when I brought up change in behaviors and asked what she wanted. Melt down, tears, anger. Said she did not want to be with me bc I asked if we could have dinner every night once married. Broke up with me suddenly and never contacted me again.
Makes no sense. Like 2 different people but she was lovely for 3 years AS LONG AS I DIDN'T QUESTION OR PUSH HER STRANGE RULES.