Post by nyc718 on Aug 21, 2019 15:04:19 GMT
Please forgive my ignorance on this. I had written about my breakup with my FA boyfriend of over a year who ghosted me after an argument.
I've been reading through some of the posts and it seems that sex can be something that FAs have trouble with after time.
What confuses me is that my FA bf never had a problem with sex. We had very passionate and intense sexual chemistry the entire time, and in fact, it seems to have started to get even more intimate in the last two months.
Something interesting happened in the last couple of months though. He was someone who described himself as "vanilla", but I was definitely more adventurous. I was happy though with our sex life and never had a problem. In the last couple of months he seemed to have come out of some shell and got a little more adventurous, and even made a comment once "this is who I really am". It was kind of weird as it was definitely NOT who he had been the whole time before. I wonder if that was something that was triggering to him?
I am still just trying to understand him and us and what went down. I am moving forward as it is clear from him basically abandoning our relationship with zero closure that we are never getting back together, but I still have a need to understand as much as I can of his mindset. Thanks for any insight.
I've been reading through some of the posts and it seems that sex can be something that FAs have trouble with after time.
What confuses me is that my FA bf never had a problem with sex. We had very passionate and intense sexual chemistry the entire time, and in fact, it seems to have started to get even more intimate in the last two months.
Something interesting happened in the last couple of months though. He was someone who described himself as "vanilla", but I was definitely more adventurous. I was happy though with our sex life and never had a problem. In the last couple of months he seemed to have come out of some shell and got a little more adventurous, and even made a comment once "this is who I really am". It was kind of weird as it was definitely NOT who he had been the whole time before. I wonder if that was something that was triggering to him?
I am still just trying to understand him and us and what went down. I am moving forward as it is clear from him basically abandoning our relationship with zero closure that we are never getting back together, but I still have a need to understand as much as I can of his mindset. Thanks for any insight.
