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Post by Deleted on Sept 10, 2019 22:14:36 GMT
uhhhh this just sounds super unhealthy, no matter what the attachment style is, and the question here I know everyone will ask you is whether you have looked at yourself and asked yourself why you tolerate such BS behavior. Seems like you should be asking yourself what your attachment style is and why you are staying in such a relationship.
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Post by milkyway on Sept 11, 2019 8:56:57 GMT
I am AP.
I know it’s not the best match but I have accepted it. I just am not dealing well with the fact that we broke up out of jest and he is now stone walling me.
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Post by tnr9 on Sept 11, 2019 12:03:37 GMT
Hi there.....I know your anxiety must be through the roof...none of us on this forum can tell you with any amount of certainty whether he will come back. Right now however, it is best to leave him be since he is not responding to you. He may be really embarrassed at how he acted versus stone walling you for something you did.
I do see a lot of very typical AP behaviors above...accommodating, predicting what the other person wants....I honestly think you drew a boundary with him that was good...he was being disrespectful, whether he was being playful about it. Boundaries are healthy.
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Post by milkyway on Sept 11, 2019 13:40:40 GMT
Thanks, I’m trying really hard not letting it bother me but yeah  |
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Post by milkyway on Sept 13, 2019 18:50:04 GMT
Hi! FA came back! Going to establish some clear boundaries and practice more solo routine and have more patience. Thanks all!
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Post by sunkissed123 on Sept 15, 2019 17:17:29 GMT
Milkyway, How long did it take the FA to come back? Was this the first cycle?
I'm currently going through this too.
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