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I need help after being ghosted Dec 6, 2019 18:19:25 GMT

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Post by addict on Dec 6, 2019 18:19:25 GMT

Dec 6, 2019 17:22:09 GMT @inmourning said:

Nov 25, 2019 22:50:23 GMT faithopelove said:

As soon as I hear he’s married- you’re married....going nowhere fast. You both have issues and you’d only bring more with you once you suffer the effects of two divorces as the result of your relationship. Also, I’d question his integrity and never trust him. What he did to her he could also do to you.

I’d make a clean break, block him and stay away. I didn’t read your entire post, but if you’re marriage is over- find someone who is available and able to freely pursue a relationship with you. Personally, I couldn’t respect a man who doesn’t show integrity and who I don’t respect, I cannot love. Let him go and move on-earn from this and do better next time.

And there is something about a woman who doesn't show integrity. (!) - especially when they are so entitled that doing something hurtful and wrong doesn't phase them and they still expect others to take all the risks and prove "availability" to them. "I won't leave my husband for the man I am pursuing but I want and deserve loyalty. "

I don't know how that gets missed- it's always someone else's fault. I know that's not where you're coming from faithopelove , I just am continually amazed at the victim mindset that continues to unfold. It's just, amazing.

It dosent get missed! It takes 2 to tango and it was 2 until he decided to ghost me...
whatever reason he has to do this is nothing to do with my integrity, availability or loyalty, that's what I was asking... I am not coming on here to belittle , condemn or show nastiness to anyone, I'm merely here trying to work out how I can regain something of my former self before I met him... No one does this purposely!! I am a human being with feelings struggling with something I had no idea about until recently, im not the devil and nor is he! I'm clearly an AP when it comes to this person and I need to ensure I move on in the right direction