Coping with broken trust in AP/DA relationship
Dec 17, 2019 1:31:15 GMT
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Post by faithopelove on Dec 17, 2019 1:31:15 GMT
Sorry, you went through this. You are looking at this completely the wrong way. You are bending yourself inside out to earn this man’s love and affection. Truth is, you lost it long ago and he doesn’t deserve you. He is a liar and a cheater who cannot be trusted. Attachment issues aside- why would you want to repair a relationship w a man who lies and is unfaithful to you? This has nothing to do with your AP- you were absolutely not too clingy or needy- if anything you were much too tolerant and accepting of his selfish and manipulative ways.
Take your focus off how you should have been better to him and recognize that he betrayed you. Let him go- you deserve better and can do better. Focus on your daughter and starting your life over without a man you could never trust. No second, third or 20th chances for him. Just move forward and recognize it’s better to find out about his true character now than another 10 years down the road.
Take your focus off how you should have been better to him and recognize that he betrayed you. Let him go- you deserve better and can do better. Focus on your daughter and starting your life over without a man you could never trust. No second, third or 20th chances for him. Just move forward and recognize it’s better to find out about his true character now than another 10 years down the road.
