Post by shannon3647 on Jan 7, 2020 23:55:45 GMT
Hi all, I’m having trouble understanding the behavior of a DA I was involved with a few months ago. Backstory - he told me he has never dated or been intimate with anyone before and is scared of this, but he said he was looking forward to doing that with the right woman.
We connected so deeply initially, and spent hours talking and getting to know each other for weeks on end - we met in grad school, and would talk before, during and after class everyday. I had never felt like this about anyone before, and he told me the same. He told me really personal details about his life that he said he had not shared with anyone else. About a month or two after we connected he hastily and abruptly ended the relationship the day before our first real date outside of school was supposed to take place. I still see him around campus and it has been so uncomfortable - we don’t talk at all.
Now, this semester we were placed in a course together again and he tried to strike up casual conversations multiple times with me over the last two weeks. Seeing as we haven’t spoken a word since things ended last year, I don’t know what to make of it. Is he over me/the situation and doesn’t care anymore? Is he trying to show he’s sorry for what he did? He never apologized for the way he pulled away and it hurts, I know deep down he could never give me what I need in a relationship but I’m still trying to get over the situation.
We connected so deeply initially, and spent hours talking and getting to know each other for weeks on end - we met in grad school, and would talk before, during and after class everyday. I had never felt like this about anyone before, and he told me the same. He told me really personal details about his life that he said he had not shared with anyone else. About a month or two after we connected he hastily and abruptly ended the relationship the day before our first real date outside of school was supposed to take place. I still see him around campus and it has been so uncomfortable - we don’t talk at all.
Now, this semester we were placed in a course together again and he tried to strike up casual conversations multiple times with me over the last two weeks. Seeing as we haven’t spoken a word since things ended last year, I don’t know what to make of it. Is he over me/the situation and doesn’t care anymore? Is he trying to show he’s sorry for what he did? He never apologized for the way he pulled away and it hurts, I know deep down he could never give me what I need in a relationship but I’m still trying to get over the situation.
