Post by lovebunny on Jan 28, 2020 21:46:01 GMT
Sorry didn't mean to hijack the thread and be whiny, was just commiserating with Jules! I mentioned that scalp massage because it was actually a really nice, beautiful moment with a fellow human. She looked me in the eyes and gave me a lovely compliment while she did it. I felt truly seen and loved for a second. I had another moment like that when a friend played with my hair last week.
But I confess I'm generally uncomfortable with platonic touching, my FOO are not touchy people. I hug my friends hi and bye, or with the gay guys I feel comfortable putting my arms around their shoulders or waists. I have one female friend who tried to get me to do cuddling and massages with her a while back while we were both between girlfriends, but I felt soooo awkward. I was glad when she got a girlfriend and stopped asking for footrubs, lol.
Friends, community,sure. Women's choir sounds super-fun! I'm in rehearsal for a play right now, and also in a writer's critique group.
But I confess I'm generally uncomfortable with platonic touching, my FOO are not touchy people. I hug my friends hi and bye, or with the gay guys I feel comfortable putting my arms around their shoulders or waists. I have one female friend who tried to get me to do cuddling and massages with her a while back while we were both between girlfriends, but I felt soooo awkward. I was glad when she got a girlfriend and stopped asking for footrubs, lol.
Friends, community,sure. Women's choir sounds super-fun! I'm in rehearsal for a play right now, and also in a writer's critique group.
