Post by hannah99 on Feb 22, 2020 13:10:14 GMT
I've been seeing someone now for a few months. He is a really caring, open person and it's going well.
Sometimes very minor things happen which are out of his control. Usually work related. For example he'll get an emergency call out or won't have a chance to reply to a message. He's apologetic and I am outwardly understanding as I know rationally he's disappointed too and it isn't personal or his fault.
When it happens I can become very depressed. I keep this to myself cause I know it's my issue and not his. But it can really interrupt my day and make it difficult to focus and function.
Any tips on how to deal with these periods?
Sometimes very minor things happen which are out of his control. Usually work related. For example he'll get an emergency call out or won't have a chance to reply to a message. He's apologetic and I am outwardly understanding as I know rationally he's disappointed too and it isn't personal or his fault.
When it happens I can become very depressed. I keep this to myself cause I know it's my issue and not his. But it can really interrupt my day and make it difficult to focus and function.
Any tips on how to deal with these periods?
