Post by fuzzybrother3 on Apr 5, 2020 18:21:45 GMT
How do dismissive avoidants usually deal with crushes? Do they avoid them and act cold or do they try to spend time with them but hide their feelings?
Edit: Might as well add some info. My best friend knows I have liked her for a year now and although she liked me at one point in the past, she claims she does not have any feelings for me. Lately, though, she has been acting extra weird around me though. She avoids me at times (especially when alone) and acts cold in person but nice over text, stopped initiating calls, walks away and avoids talking to me but listens to conversations with others, and more even though nothing has changed. At the same time, she is always calling and talking to another boy who she said she didn't find attractive to a mutual friend. I cannot tell if she is into him or just nervous of being vulnerable around me and showing interest back (she claims she doesn't want to date anyone in college).
Edit: Might as well add some info. My best friend knows I have liked her for a year now and although she liked me at one point in the past, she claims she does not have any feelings for me. Lately, though, she has been acting extra weird around me though. She avoids me at times (especially when alone) and acts cold in person but nice over text, stopped initiating calls, walks away and avoids talking to me but listens to conversations with others, and more even though nothing has changed. At the same time, she is always calling and talking to another boy who she said she didn't find attractive to a mutual friend. I cannot tell if she is into him or just nervous of being vulnerable around me and showing interest back (she claims she doesn't want to date anyone in college).