Is he an AP? First argument and he threatens to leave

Been together 2 months. Everything was great until last weekend where my FA attachment acting up and I told him I wished he could make more efforts. However my communication style in relationship is not the best and he might not get the idea. Instead of telling me “baby, let’s talk about it and make more efforts together”, he probably thought i was merely just doubting things.

Then we had a small argument over the weekend. Something so small that I didn’t even think he would feel so bothered by it. It was literally just miscommunication over when we should meet up and it left us both feeling frustrated. We talked about it and I thought we were good.. Then he came telling me a day later he thinks we are too different and he’s worried that that fight means we are incompatible and maybe it’s not going to work, without even talking over things!

From our discussion following that, it appeared to me that he just wanted to see my reactions instead of actually wanting to end things. Lots of messages from his part. Then I got frustrated and told him I would like someone who would make more efforts in understanding each other and working on things when there are small arguments so I don’t think it would work between us. Then I told him he should’ve come to me and we could talk about things instead of threatening to leave.

Is he an AP? I guess I don’t know him well enough to know but he definitely struggles to express his needs. Hes very affectionate and everything was great but I did sense some obvious signs of insecurity from his part. I know he’s not dismissive avoidant for sure as he told me early on he doesn’t want to see other people.

Not sure what’s the next step should be. I guess we could talk again when we both calmed down?