Post by anne12 on Aug 9, 2020 9:28:19 GMT
I know some attatchment therapists sugests their clients to work with their feminine/masculine energy:
Yin and Yang, together form a whole. The dynamics works best when there is a balance between the 2 poles. When you each make up the opposite half.
If you are both in the masculine energy, your friendly relationship can be thriving at best. You will probably be good at different activities together. Maybe you're really competing together. But there will not be much spark.
If you are both in the feminine pole, you can have the most amazing deep and emotional talks. You will feel seen, heard and understood. But again, it is possible that your sex life will die out.
In principle, a masculine woman and a feminine man should have the relationship and sex life to work out perfect. It just does not always happen. But sometimes.
There are many couples, where the woman has become equally masculine or more masculine than the man. The man has often been passive and feminine, he has left the stearing wheel to the woman. It gives a lot of frustrations for both.
In working life and elsewhere, you as a woman can quite easily use your masculine sides. As a man, you will be converted to a more whole human being when you take on some of the feminine sides.
It is actually really good and enriching for both sexes to develop both the masculine and the feminine sides. We can better live our potential from here. The art is that you compared to a (potential) partner, is in your masculine or feminine pole (typically your gender, but you may have changed to the opposite,).
Outside the relationsship, you can grow both poles, but when you meet up with your (potential) partner, you can choose to be feminie, or masculine.
The feminine:
The feminine power is soft, open, positive, receptive, fluid, intuitive, without direction, seeking, inquiring, flexible, nutritious, radiating the energy of feminine joy and capturing what is necessary in the present. The feminine is designed to be social and good at the emotional. In our hustle and bustle daily life of action and targeting, the feminine power has been both misunderstood and unseen. Many therefore regard the feminine as something negative. General negative associates: weakness, hysteria, erratic swinging, moody, manipulative, passive, compassionate, immortal, passive aggressive, impoverished, victim
Inspiration on how get more into the feminie energy:
• Be with women to grow the feminine
• By movements: bodily, mental, etc.
• Sensuality *
• Aesthetics and energy
• Changes, rhythm
• Sense
• Be in the nature, feel the ground and the plants
• Contain emotions and feel the energy
• Open the heart
• Dress up so you feel feminine
• Give care and nutrition to someone or something, whether it's just a plant. Notice the nourishing aspect of this.
- practise the yin breath
*do some of the "feel your sences" exercises in the selfregulation thread
*do slow soft seductive movements
Inspiration on how to Get more into the masculie energy:
Now you may think it's much easier to be a man. It is far from it. For the entire institutional world, from the nursery to the classroom, is characterized by women and women's activities.
Going on adventure and exploring is important for the masculine.
On the contrary, boys often go to school before they are ready for a life where they
must sit still for a long time and use the head instead of the body. One of the feminine forces is to conect verbally, the masculine strength is the body and muscles! Later in life, the masculine typically becomes best at useing the left hemisphere, meaning commen sense and linearity thoughts. The masculine is best at focusing on one thing at a time, as it was important at the time the masculine was a hunter.
The masculine may have been castrated from when they were little boys.
Some boys have been castrated in some cultures from the were very young.
They were not allowed to fight/ play with weapons.ect.
The masculine doesn't have that many words. It is important for the masculine to express oneself bodily. Getting rid of anger and frustrations bodily - push kick ect as children.
Do you want to get more into masculine energy(many women loves this), then there is one thing that is most important to focus on: put your limits/boundaries and go for some of the goals you have set.
Inspiration on how to grow your masculine energy:
• Stay together with men who dare to give you courage and ask you questions.
Men who are in their masculine energy and who can challenge you
• Do exercise and use your body, push yourself ect
• Find your mission, set goals ... reach them
• Debate / argue
• Take control, take initiatives, perform actions
• Set your limits, , set boundaries (if you are a man do not let anyone castrate you)
• Give your gifts, your passion
• Open your heart
• Go on adventures
- practise the yang breath
If you are/want to be feminine then it is important - to be able to be happy and to be happy about the smallest things in life - it is crucial for a good relationship!
This is the most important thing. This is what matters most to the masculine, that he/she is experiencing, that what he/she has to offer, makes the feminie happy. Then he/she feels masculine and successful! It's all about the instinctive level.
In relationships:
The masculine moves slow and it can take the masculine up to 1 or 2 years or more to fully commit.
The feminine moves fast and often wants to commit around 3 months into the relationship.
Because the feminine often rushes into relationships, the feminine can be the one who can leave the relationship after some time, because the feminine dident take "herself/himself" enough time to get to know the other person well enough before committing.
Also the feminine can shift quick like ebb and flow, like the different moon phases. The masculine takes longer time to shift and prefers to be firm and to keep a steady course.
(The feminine can be a man and the masculine can be as woman - it's energetic - you need both)
jebkinnisonforum.com/thread/1052/story-dating-life
Yin and Yang, together form a whole. The dynamics works best when there is a balance between the 2 poles. When you each make up the opposite half.
If you are both in the masculine energy, your friendly relationship can be thriving at best. You will probably be good at different activities together. Maybe you're really competing together. But there will not be much spark.
If you are both in the feminine pole, you can have the most amazing deep and emotional talks. You will feel seen, heard and understood. But again, it is possible that your sex life will die out.
In principle, a masculine woman and a feminine man should have the relationship and sex life to work out perfect. It just does not always happen. But sometimes.
There are many couples, where the woman has become equally masculine or more masculine than the man. The man has often been passive and feminine, he has left the stearing wheel to the woman. It gives a lot of frustrations for both.
In working life and elsewhere, you as a woman can quite easily use your masculine sides. As a man, you will be converted to a more whole human being when you take on some of the feminine sides.
It is actually really good and enriching for both sexes to develop both the masculine and the feminine sides. We can better live our potential from here. The art is that you compared to a (potential) partner, is in your masculine or feminine pole (typically your gender, but you may have changed to the opposite,).
Outside the relationsship, you can grow both poles, but when you meet up with your (potential) partner, you can choose to be feminie, or masculine.
The feminine:
The feminine power is soft, open, positive, receptive, fluid, intuitive, without direction, seeking, inquiring, flexible, nutritious, radiating the energy of feminine joy and capturing what is necessary in the present. The feminine is designed to be social and good at the emotional. In our hustle and bustle daily life of action and targeting, the feminine power has been both misunderstood and unseen. Many therefore regard the feminine as something negative. General negative associates: weakness, hysteria, erratic swinging, moody, manipulative, passive, compassionate, immortal, passive aggressive, impoverished, victim
Inspiration on how get more into the feminie energy:
• Be with women to grow the feminine
• By movements: bodily, mental, etc.
• Sensuality *
• Aesthetics and energy
• Changes, rhythm
• Sense
• Be in the nature, feel the ground and the plants
• Contain emotions and feel the energy
• Open the heart
• Dress up so you feel feminine
• Give care and nutrition to someone or something, whether it's just a plant. Notice the nourishing aspect of this.
- practise the yin breath
*do some of the "feel your sences" exercises in the selfregulation thread
*do slow soft seductive movements
Inspiration on how to Get more into the masculie energy:
Now you may think it's much easier to be a man. It is far from it. For the entire institutional world, from the nursery to the classroom, is characterized by women and women's activities.
Going on adventure and exploring is important for the masculine.
On the contrary, boys often go to school before they are ready for a life where they
must sit still for a long time and use the head instead of the body. One of the feminine forces is to conect verbally, the masculine strength is the body and muscles! Later in life, the masculine typically becomes best at useing the left hemisphere, meaning commen sense and linearity thoughts. The masculine is best at focusing on one thing at a time, as it was important at the time the masculine was a hunter.
The masculine may have been castrated from when they were little boys.
Some boys have been castrated in some cultures from the were very young.
They were not allowed to fight/ play with weapons.ect.
The masculine doesn't have that many words. It is important for the masculine to express oneself bodily. Getting rid of anger and frustrations bodily - push kick ect as children.
Do you want to get more into masculine energy(many women loves this), then there is one thing that is most important to focus on: put your limits/boundaries and go for some of the goals you have set.
Inspiration on how to grow your masculine energy:
• Stay together with men who dare to give you courage and ask you questions.
Men who are in their masculine energy and who can challenge you
• Do exercise and use your body, push yourself ect
• Find your mission, set goals ... reach them
• Debate / argue
• Take control, take initiatives, perform actions
• Set your limits, , set boundaries (if you are a man do not let anyone castrate you)
• Give your gifts, your passion
• Open your heart
• Go on adventures
- practise the yang breath
If you are/want to be feminine then it is important - to be able to be happy and to be happy about the smallest things in life - it is crucial for a good relationship!
This is the most important thing. This is what matters most to the masculine, that he/she is experiencing, that what he/she has to offer, makes the feminie happy. Then he/she feels masculine and successful! It's all about the instinctive level.
In relationships:
The masculine moves slow and it can take the masculine up to 1 or 2 years or more to fully commit.
The feminine moves fast and often wants to commit around 3 months into the relationship.
Because the feminine often rushes into relationships, the feminine can be the one who can leave the relationship after some time, because the feminine dident take "herself/himself" enough time to get to know the other person well enough before committing.
Also the feminine can shift quick like ebb and flow, like the different moon phases. The masculine takes longer time to shift and prefers to be firm and to keep a steady course.
(The feminine can be a man and the masculine can be as woman - it's energetic - you need both)
jebkinnisonforum.com/thread/1052/story-dating-life