Post by Me on Nov 3, 2020 3:14:46 GMT
Ive always been ap and now my results have changed, first to fearful avoidant and now im testing mostly as secure with fearful as a secondary style and strangely im scoring the lowest in anxious preoccupied. Occasionally i will test as a fearful avoidant as my primary style if im in a low mood or feeling particularly cynical but 9 out of 10 times its secure .
Ive had a bad relationship which i still haven't got myself out of but its completely changed me . I dont ever want to get married or live with anyone once i get out of this situation and im only concerned with being financially secure and stable for my son. However i do find myself sort of longing for closeness although i wouldnt trust anyone again.
Im way less triggered however i dont feel exactly secure either because im still involved with the da and im still upset at some things . Although ive been doing a lot of re programming work as well
I know that some aps feel more avoidant as they start to heal but would this show up as a change in test results ?
Ive had a bad relationship which i still haven't got myself out of but its completely changed me . I dont ever want to get married or live with anyone once i get out of this situation and im only concerned with being financially secure and stable for my son. However i do find myself sort of longing for closeness although i wouldnt trust anyone again.
Im way less triggered however i dont feel exactly secure either because im still involved with the da and im still upset at some things . Although ive been doing a lot of re programming work as well
I know that some aps feel more avoidant as they start to heal but would this show up as a change in test results ?