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Post by kittygirl on Nov 3, 2020 17:48:06 GMT
Thais Gibsons new video about sticking in relationships with someone who isn't showing up is great! Maybe this will help anyone out there who is struggling with making excuses based on attachment for their partners crappy behavior. Very empowering!
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Post by Me on Nov 3, 2020 22:25:57 GMT
Ive done that so much in the past , allowing bad behaviour because of attachment style or thinking its ok because deep down underneath the avoidance he does care but ive been hurting myself by doing that .
I really like all of thais videos . Especially when she says to set a time limit and show up as much as possible and if at the end of that period nothing has changed then to leave knowing youve done your part . I also like the way she explains using numbers saying that a persons feelings for you might be an 8 but their fear is at a 10 so your only getting like a 2 in effort . I think thats a really good way of explaining and another thing that has helped me was not letting another persons wounds mean something about your worth / confidence .
Ive done a few of her courses and they have made so much difference for me .
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Post by kittygirl on Nov 3, 2020 22:52:12 GMT
Same! Life changing!
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