Post by marykatherine on Mar 9, 2021 6:07:58 GMT
After 11 months, my DA texted me. We were not in a committed relationship, but were together often. Classic DA, when things got intimate, the hot and cold dance started. He caught feeling before I did. I grew tired of it and just started ignoring him. He reached out passively around the three month mark and I didn't reply.
At 11 months, his text wasn't passive this time, he told me a story about a friend and included a photo of the two. During the 11 months he experienced some health issues that have left him bloated and he's probably gained 25 to 30 pounds. I replied to his text, sticking to the subject matter and did not ask to see him.
That was a week ago and I haven't heard anything else from him. I think he's testing the waters and wanted me to see his "new" body (or if would I reject him).
Should I best sit back and let him drive, or do I need to make a little more effort? Why did he come back after 11 months?
Thanks
At 11 months, his text wasn't passive this time, he told me a story about a friend and included a photo of the two. During the 11 months he experienced some health issues that have left him bloated and he's probably gained 25 to 30 pounds. I replied to his text, sticking to the subject matter and did not ask to see him.
That was a week ago and I haven't heard anything else from him. I think he's testing the waters and wanted me to see his "new" body (or if would I reject him).
Should I best sit back and let him drive, or do I need to make a little more effort? Why did he come back after 11 months?
Thanks
