Post by dullboat123 on Jun 29, 2021 6:35:22 GMT
For her father's abuse to thrive, the entire family unit had to play a role, even if he did the main work.
You don't understand: dysfunction is systemic. It doesn't just come from one person. My mom is a super enabler and I had/still have anger towards her because she put me in harms way repeatedly.
Not quite true. Her mum left her abusive drug dealing husband when she was still a baby. However she gets to spend time with him due to custodial arrangements. The abuse did not come to light until my ex was much older and she recognizes it. By then it was too late.