Children of DA‘s? May 3, 2021 18:39:46 GMT via mobile
Post by memay on May 3, 2021 18:39:46 GMT
I just discovered this forum because I could not understand what happened during the last 7 years. Now I strongly believe I was in an on/off relationship with a DA. It started 2014 when I met him and it took off very fast. He seemed caring and kind out to a point where he suddenly ended it without me knowing what to make of it. I begged and pleaded and hit his emotional wall. Later on I found out that he just recently had split up with his longtime girlfriend with whom he shared a child. I thought I was a rebound and left it at that. Like clockwork we would seem to find it each other (in hindsight I understand way) once each year. 2016 I became pregnant and he took off. When my daughter was born I hit another emotional wall. And I think that was my breaking point because I could not understand how he could not want to see his own child. His parents stepped in but soon they went from visiting to sending presents not wanting to meet her in person. It broke my heart for my daughter that she was so unwelcome and unwanted. Last year he indirectly contacted me and I thought I would give it a try for my daughter‘s sake. Of course he stonewalled me again, telling me via phone that he does not care if we see each other again, it hit me hard. I started searching the internet and found this forum. Each and every description I have read was like reading about his character. The awkward reactions, robot like behavior, from both himself and his parents. Even the ex as a factor made so much sense (since he cannot have her he tries to find suitable partners for her - how crazy is that ) Looking back I now feel ashamed of myself for not seeing it sooner. Has anyone experience with children of DA‘s? I don‘t know what to tell her when she is older.