I'm very happy that this thread took the twists and turns that it did! I've learned a lot.
I was reading some of Jeb's material today and I really appreciate this article. I was on break at work and skimmed it and will be going back to read it in depth tomorrow. I'm looking at more ways to improve communication,although the revelations just since I started this thread have been so helpful. We have talked about all of it. I'll share this article with him as well. Enjoy!