Post by anne12 on Dec 10, 2021 8:10:48 GMT
How can you get the other person to say yes to what you want ?
Eg you want your new boyfriend to add on facebook that you are a coulpe. And he says NO.
1) Be curious why the other says no or might hesitate
2) Ask yourself Why you want the other person to say yes to you
3) Tell the other person what you want, what you wish with joy - “I would really like if, it would make me so happy if….”
People want to be allowed to choose freely
What if the other says no…Make yourself free of that the other has to say yes.
People like that they have the opportunity to say no. People want to be allowed to choose freely.
Eg you want your new boyfriend to add on facebook that you are a coulpe. And he says NO.
1) Be curious why the other says no or might hesitate
2) Ask yourself Why you want the other person to say yes to you
3) Tell the other person what you want, what you wish with joy - “I would really like if, it would make me so happy if….”
People want to be allowed to choose freely
What if the other says no…Make yourself free of that the other has to say yes.
People like that they have the opportunity to say no. People want to be allowed to choose freely.