Why your anger with an avoidant is a waste of time Sept 15, 2022 22:30:48 GMT introvert likes this
Post by tnr9 on Sept 15, 2022 22:30:48 GMT
Welcome to the boards….upon reading this article, I do not get the sense that the author is saying that boundary crossings etc should not be addressed….what I read is that blaming someone’s attachment as the problem versus looking at your own opportunities to work on your own needs causes a skewed outcome. I think we have also founds on these boards that posters will occasionally confuse attachment issues with personality disorders…such as narcissists. I do like how the author tries to guide someone who has an anxious attachment to use their interactions with other insecure attached individuals as an opportunity to practice good boundaries and other self affirming tools.