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Post by jimboyup on Aug 21, 2022 16:26:31 GMT
Long story short, typical AP here, had an amazing 4 months with a FA, she ended it out of nowhere. Two weeks later says she wants to be friends. Why would she want that? Feels like it wouldn’t be good for me. Thank you all.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2022 22:04:23 GMT
Long story short, typical AP here, had an amazing 4 months with a FA, she ended it out of nowhere. Two weeks later says she wants to be friends. Why would she want that? Feels like it wouldn’t be good for me. Thank you all. Doesn't matter why someone wants something. It's a fools game trying to live inside someone else's head. If it feels like it wouldn't be good for you, then go with that and trust it 100% because you are absolutely correct. If you're AP and she is FA then hanging around the friend zone would twist you in knots indefinitely. Trust yourself and disregard anything that you don't have control of (her, her internal mechanisms, her insecure attachment style). |
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Post by mrob on Aug 21, 2022 22:20:55 GMT
Hi. You’ve been able to diagnose yourself, and her, so you must have done some reading on attachment styles. I’d say it’s because the pressure is off and she’s had time to think. Should you re-engage, you could be going into a cycle where this happens again and again. “Go away, come back, too close, too far”. My early posts will give you an idea from the FA end. Good luck.
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Post by jimboyup on Aug 22, 2022 23:18:26 GMT
Thank you all!
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