Novice take on some basic principles of relationship with FA

I'm just responding to you in kind since you felt the need to belittle to compensate for your lack of capacity for reading or thinking about different viewpoints. A secure person focuses on what he can do and not on what the ex is thinking. Your language surrounding breakups that you project onto others like myself and others in your other posts shows that you are still very much an insecure and emotionally unstable person who takes breakups extremely personally and bitterly. And your closed minded intolerance of outside therapist advice is amusing when you dismissively label it an experiment. Looks like you obsessively hanging around the forum for so long to justify your own toxic behaviour and self hasn't helped you become a mature and secure adult. It's not difficult to understand why. Hehe.

Hehe, again you expose your own lack of maturity. Without any information on what happened and is happening in my relationship, bitter and insecure posters like yourself are offering relationship advice to me just to make yourselves feel better and justify the painful experiences you went through and the shame and bitterness that you are still holding onto. Time for you to start actually learning to be a secure mature adult and stop letting your damaged inner child run wild.

Hey, thanks for another irrelevant reply that just goes to show your lack of emotional maturity. Your obsession with and language surrounding relationships and breakups only exposes your insecurity and the shame that you are still holding on to. Unlike you, secure persons take the positives and work on the relationship or move on, and do not obsess over the negatives about breakups or go around showing that their lives are centered on and revolve around someone else. You do need real healing instead of hiding here pretending to believe the lies you tell your insecure self. *Wink wink*