FA ex trying to get me back or not?! Aug 12, 2023 1:12:49 GMT via mobile
Post by tish on Aug 12, 2023 1:12:49 GMT
My FA ex broke up with me when i was recovering from surgery in the hospital. You all helped me realize he was FA which I didn’t understand at first. He was at first distant but every so often randomly texts and I kept it short. He called and hung up after one ring last week and I guess he chickened out because he called again and I picked up and he was really heavy sounding and asked if I was sure I had time to talk. I said yes and he asked again. Then he said he wanted to thank me. Then he went on and on about how he wanted to thank me for helping him being confident in himself as a dad. Confident in himself in his job (he opened up a business because of my suggestion after we broke up though…not while we were together). Then he wanted me to know that he thinks I’m a good person, a good mom and I was a good friend to him. I said that was sweet of him to say and he was silent. He can be awkward and not know what to say. I waited to see if he would say anything else and he didn’t so I decided the conversation died and said thanks and wished him a good rest of his day. I don’t think he was happy with this. He unmatched his location that he was sharing with me but had paused. I got an alert this morning. I also suspect his social media presence this morning was looking at pics of me as he admitted in the past that’s all he does on a specific account of his. I’m not sure if I want him back. He’s a good person but what he did to me in the hospital wasn’t okay. And he hasn’t said he misses me or made anything up to me. He hasn’t asked for me back or said he still loves me but I also feel like I’m not 100 on closing the door so I wanted to give him a chance but he didn’t keep it going. Two or three weeks ago he suggested bringing me my things (I’m an hour away) and I said I could lift them because of surgery. I didn’t want him coming to my house with my kids. So I would have still had to lift. After this he seemed upset too. But I sent a message after and said if he wants to bring light stuff I can meet him for those and he said he doesn’t understand and “I must just want to see him ” and then he agreed to drive there and I didn’t respond since it was midnight by the time he said that and then in the morning he said “never mind. We’ll catch up soon enough.” So I don’t feel like I can move forward without that happening again. Any advice? This sucks! I know I’m better off without the trouble but I do care.