Post by cherrycola on Oct 27, 2023 16:27:57 GMT
Yep, I am an FA who leaned avoidant pretty much my entire marriage. Despite the fact on a friend level he was my best friend and we got on in so many ways, values, and interests. I Would just go numb, want my own space. My own life. Feel smothered and controlled (to be fair, he was fairly controlling). We both thought I was the problem in the relationship and that he was normal and fine.
We are still friends and talk from time to time but now that I have spent years in therapy and working on myself I can see all the missing pieces in our relationship, from both sides. How we were both emotionally unavailable and so it was functional dysfunction.
We are still friends and talk from time to time but now that I have spent years in therapy and working on myself I can see all the missing pieces in our relationship, from both sides. How we were both emotionally unavailable and so it was functional dysfunction.