Good bye and good luck everyone

DearLover
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Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 20, 2017 23:02:50 GMT serene13, learningalongtheway, and 2 more like this

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Post by DearLover on Dec 20, 2017 23:02:50 GMT

By Christmas time I will not be coming back. Even though I am not 100% cured I won't be coming here anymore.

I intend to embark on a more intense healing journey so I can start a fresh shiny brand new year.
It came to a point where I am feeling that keeping writing about my exDA and reading about other Dismissive men is keeping me stuck in the past somehow.

I understand it all now. I know what happened and why. I need to stop playing the record in my head.

I want to express my profound gratitude to Jeb and everyone here. This place is truly life saving.
I hope I was also able to give some help along the way.

And fingers cross I won't be back with "same stories but different man" ... But if I do, oh well, it is part of the journey I guess. I bet it won't take me another 9 months to see the light.

Good luck to us all and happy 2018.

tnr9 Platinum Member Posts: 3,782	Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 20, 2017 23:04:09 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by tnr9 on Dec 20, 2017 23:04:09 GMT Good luck!!!! 😀

stellar1969 Junior Member Posts: 57	Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 21, 2017 0:46:56 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by stellar1969 on Dec 21, 2017 0:46:56 GMT I hear you. I'm almost in the same place. I respond less and less and remembering him through these forums is not helpful.

Jeb Kinnison Administrator Posts: 62	Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 21, 2017 20:18:06 GMT Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by Jeb Kinnison on Dec 21, 2017 20:18:06 GMT Best of luck on your continuing journey, DearLover. You see more clearly now, and I want to thank all the people here who have helped by supporting others.

pooched
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Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 22, 2017 18:39:43 GMT

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Post by pooched on Dec 22, 2017 18:39:43 GMT

I don't post often, but I do come back to read every so often... thank you for your posts and responses DearLover. I wish I were at the same spot as you. After 5 months of NC, my ex DA and I just had coffee on Sunday. I must admit, it was good and it was bad... it's not yet done for me and it will take some time. I also respect the strength and discipline that you have. Take care and all the best!

satori
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Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 23, 2017 18:49:58 GMT

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Post by satori on Dec 23, 2017 18:49:58 GMT

DearLover... I wanted to wish you good luck in your new journey... Thank you for your contribution and I hope we have helped you along the way... Don't be a stranger as you are always welcome to come back, if you choose...

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step..." - by the Chinese philosopher Laozi (circa 604 {BC} - circa 531 {BC})

aspera New Member Posts: 4	Good bye and good luck everyone Dec 30, 2017 20:26:01 GMT via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Back to Top Post by aspera on Dec 30, 2017 20:26:01 GMT I guess I may already be late to this. But thank you so much for all your posts and I wish you a very happy new year!

Post by DearLover on Dec 20, 2017 23:02:50 GMT

Post by tnr9 on Dec 20, 2017 23:04:09 GMT

Post by stellar1969 on Dec 21, 2017 0:46:56 GMT

Post by Jeb Kinnison on Dec 21, 2017 20:18:06 GMT

Post by pooched on Dec 22, 2017 18:39:43 GMT

Post by satori on Dec 23, 2017 18:49:58 GMT

Post by aspera on Dec 30, 2017 20:26:01 GMT